There is a difference in the psychological structure of man and woman and due to this many times a state of tension is created. It is said that if the man is from Mars then the woman is the resident of the planet Venus. This also implies that both are opposite from each other. For centuries, man’s job has been hunting or in today’s context, managing income for the house and woman’s job has been to manage the house.
Due to this, the man remains focused on his vision – no opportunity is left out of his hand and the woman is focused on her hearing so that no sound is left unheard. So whenever there is estrangement between husband and wife, the woman says that she does not listen and the husband says that it is not visible. It is not the fault of both but there is a natural difference between them.
The situation is different at present. More and more women are wearing the responsibility of bringing income into the house, that is, by using their hearing abilities in the corporate sector, they are filling that gap. Which was previously a weak link such as human resources or customer service.
Apart from the natural difference between men and women, there are many reasons for estrangement between husband and wife. Nowadays, the husband and wife spend more than half of the day in the office or outside the house, sometimes due to this, there is a possibility of having an extramarital affair and that causes house-bickering. Sometimes the ego of both also collides, which also causes bitterness in the relationship.
There are many reasons given above which we have no control over. The difference between the psychology of man and woman cannot be changed, but if there is love and mutual harmony between the husband and wife, then there is never a bit of bitterness or estrangement. Let us know what Vastu measures can be taken to increase mutual love.
If your bedroom is in the south-west, it is best, the bedroom in the south is also considered to be the best. The bedroom in the south-east increases the rift between the spouses, especially when the bed is placed between the east and the southeast.
According to Vastu, three zones of the house are helpful in increasing mutual love between husband and wife; The most prominent of these is South-West. In this area of the house, there are energy to maintain relationships. North-East helps us in bringing clarity in relationships. The determination to stand up for each other when needed comes from the energy of the northwest. If there is toilet or any other architectural defect in these three areas of the house, then it directly affects the mutual relationship between the husband and wife and it is necessary to get a proper diagnosis.
If there is an excess of red color in the south-west of the house, then change it to yellow or cream color. Placing plants here is also prohibited. Pairing two swans in the south-west is also helpful in strengthening the relationship. If a pair of swans is not available, then the symbol of “double happiness” can also be applied in the south-west. Here in a frame, the husband and wife should frame their picture also.
Vastu defects like garbage, toilet, septic tank in the northeast of the house also spoil the relationship. It is also harmful to have red, purple, or pink colors here. Change this color to cream color.
The above examples are written in relation to the husband-wife relationship but they also affect the rest of the relationship in the house like if you are living in a joint family and there is bitterness between the families then a joint picture of the whole family in the southwest Apply
Acharya Manoj Shrivastava is a Vastu Consultant and Astrologer with more than twenty years of corporate leadership experience. He has previously held senior positions in large corporate houses such as Airtel, Reliance and MTS. Nowadays, he is fully serving as a Vastu Consultant and Astrologer.
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